I Hate My College, So Now What? 4 Things to Consider When Transferring

By Jazmyn Scholl

Spring 2024

High school is the best four years of your life! We’ve all heard the statement; we’ve all hoped that it’s nowhere close to the truth. And please don’t worry, it’s not. What comes after high school is much more important to your personal growth, and for many people that’s college. College is the first time a lot of people experience adult responsibilities like paying bills and living without their parents. A lot of pressure is placed on choosing a college, and rightfully so. You have to choose a place that will not only educate you for your career (which is very important), but also support you in several other ways. Most of all, you want to be happy where you are and with what you’re doing. It’s a huge decision to make at a young age, and it can be easy to feel rushed into picking one. It’s normal to feel like you don’t belong at the college you chose, which is why transferring is so common. So, if you’re unhappily sitting on a college campus because you feel like you made the wrong decision, don’t freak out just yet! You’re not alone.

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

It’s an overwhelming experience realizing you don’t like your college. Lots of emotions are flowing, and you may have pushed them away or “given it time” for you to like it there. You may feel guilty, thinking how did I go through this long application process (and pay all this money) just to hate it here? But choosing your academic path should be a selfish process. No one else is going to go to class every day and complete the degree but you. So, you need to find a place where you feel supported academically, emotionally, and financially. If you feel like one of these is lacking at your current college, it’s time to consider your options.

Transferring colleges isn’t an easy task. Anne Kuntz, an academic counselor at Kaneland High School, says “neither choice will be easy, choose the choice you are most willing to tolerate.” Would you rather stay at a place you don’t like? Or would you rather put in the work to find a place you might love? If your choice is the latter, I encourage you to keep reading. It will take time to find a college that will fit your needs, but there are resources available to help you.

4 Factors to Find the Best College

The first step to a college search is to ask as many questions as possible! You’ve made the mistake of being misinformed once, let’s not do it again. Take out a sheet of paper and write down as many questions as you can think of. But if you’re experiencing some writer’s block, here are some topics to get your college search started.

1. School Size

I’m a transfer student, and something crucial in my decision process was class size and resources. You might want to consider your own learning style, and if you have no idea what I’m talking about, take a quiz and see. Personally, I prefer a smaller class size because I like to ask a lot of questions and I hate background noise when I’m trying to listen to professors give a lecture. So, I ended up researching smaller schools, with around 5,000 or fewer students. However, if you like the big lecture style classes and enjoy having many classmates to talk to, then a larger school with an enrollment as high as 70,000 students might benefit you most.

Because I have experience at a smaller school, I have to rave a little bit about the benefits. The connections you have with the professors are much more personal and in-depth than at a larger school. Your professors will get to know you in some capacity, whereas the professor might not remember your name in a class of 100+ students. Building relationships with professors can help you in the future and can get you involved with things like part-time jobs and research. According to USNews.com, “It's the undergraduates who are called upon to look up the sources, help conduct the experiments, and often even write up—or present at a conference—the findings with the professor,” which can give you experience for your career that larger schools might not be able to provide. Kuntz attended a larger university. While she’s grateful for that experience, she states that she “felt the absence” of that smaller school's support. Additionally, smaller schools are easier to navigate physically. I never feel lost, and I see a lot of the same people every day, so I’m comfortable asking them where a building or classroom is.

On the other hand, larger schools provide some of their own unique perks. Ashley Lopez, a student at Northern Illinois University (NIU), absolutely loves her college. She transferred to NIU from Northeastern Illinois University in Chicago, which is a small school with an enrollment of around 5,000 students. Even though she appreciated the support from NEIU, she explained in an interview with me that the student clubs and Greek Life she is involved in at NIU have been extremely rewarding. Being in a sorority has connected her to lifelong friends and resources to succeed. According to College Rank, if you love to be involved and participate in community service, “joining a fraternity or sorority is a lifelong membership that offers opportunities to participate in leadership activities long after graduation,” so you’ll always be welcomed back with open arms. If you’re interested in being a part of Greek Life for the philanthropy events or parties (or both), they’re more prominent at larger schools. Keep in mind that participating in Greek Life does cost money, but other student organizations and clubs are cheaper or free to join. Here is an example of the NIU student organizations. Most big schools have similar organizations, so you can search up a list if being involved on campus interests you!

Choosing your academic path should be a selfish process. No one else is going to go to class every day and complete the degree but you. So, you need to find a place where you feel supported academically, emotionally, and financially.

2. Cost of School

At this point in your academic career, it should be no surprise that college is going to cost some amount of money. There will be differences in tuition depending on location, prestige of the school, if the school is public or private, and many other factors. An article from CollegeXpress explains that if you’re transferring colleges to save money, pay attention to each school’s financial aid package and how much they’ll offer you. This is great advice because the financial aid package lays out the cost breakdown and any other information you might need. Something to note, though: you won’t receive the full financial package until you’ve applied and been accepted to a college. Simply Googling the base or average tuition for a college before applying will give you a pretty good idea of how much you can expect to pay without any aid or scholarships.

I recently held an interview with Rebecca Rimkus, the transfer admission counselor at North Central College. During our conversation, she expressed that “school is an investment” and that is what she tries to help transfer students do: invest in the best education for them. You should be getting the quality of school that you pay for. But it doesn’t have to put you in thousands of dollars in debt! When I was applying to transfer colleges, I looked for scholarships that rewarded my GPA or other academics, any extracurriculars I had participated in, etc. When you’re researching transfer colleges, I recommend reaching out to the transfer admissions counselor or the Financial Aid offices to see what support they have specifically for transfer students. According to USNews.com, the tuition and fees to attend college have risen about 4% since last year. However, “private schools can often make up the price gap through tuition discounts and institutional aid.” For example, North Central College has transfer merit scholarships, which is tuition money granted to you based on your GPA upon entering the college. The resources will be there if you know where and how to search for them.

3. Transferring Credits

Even though you may not have enjoyed it, you still put time and effort into doing coursework at your current college. Rimkus said the number one question students ask her is, “How will my classes transfer?” This wasn’t surprising to me because sometimes schools have their own curriculum requirements that don’t equally match up with another school. A study at the University of Georgia found that students who transfer from a four-year college to another are associated with having more debt because they had to complete an extra semester or year of classes. It’s something to be aware of, but this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t transfer to that school. Ask yourself what’s more important to you, completing your degree “on time” or enjoying the time you spend while completing it? But if you’re set on completing a degree in four years, then you’ll want to create a list of schools based on the number of credits they’ll accept.

So, you might be asking: how do I know if the class I’m in right now will count at “X” college? When I was in the transfer process myself, I used Transferology, which is a website that will show you exactly what classes will transfer for you or not. It has data for over 400 schools in the US, so it is a very useful tool that you might want to bookmark. Sometimes there are also credit equivalents on college websites. Looking at your specific degree requirements on the college website will be helpful as well, because that can also vary. I would recommend exploring each school’s website and becoming familiar with how to navigate it so you can easily look at these pages.

4. Location and Safety on Campus

Another question to ask when you’re college searching is: am I going to be living on campus or commuting? If you want to experience dorm life away from your parents (nobody blames you), then it’s important to think about campus safety since that’s where you’ll spend most of your time outside of class. When Lopez attended NEIU, the reason that eventually led her to transfer was that she felt unsafe in her dorm and on campus. Explaining that her “happiness and safety comes first,” she chose to leave the city and now feels secure in her environment at NIU because of how friendly and present the campus police are in the event of an issue.

If you’re choosing to commute, which I have in my college career, research the parking surrounding the campus and be aware of commuter parking pass fees. A college in a densely populated area might have limited or higher priced parking. Consider the parking fees plus the gas money it’ll cost you to drive to campus every day. Additionally, commuting can impact your connectedness to campus events and academic success. Dr. Ruth N. Lopez Turley and associates conducted a study on college residence and academic performance and found that students living on campus had significantly higher GPAs than commuters. Even though I’m a commuter, I’d say that if you’re willing to pay the cost of dorm residence, it could be worth considering. Because I’ve had three years of commuter experience now, I know how to handle the academic load, but it might be nice for those resources to be within such close reach.

What should I do with this list of schools?

You’ve now researched several colleges based on size, cost, credit transfer, location, and safety. Ideally, you have some options (or one) that checks all your boxes. The next, and in my opinion, most exciting, part is visiting! Even if you have 10+ colleges on that paper, visit them. At least do a virtual visit or talk with an admissions counselor via Zoom or phone call. College visits are so important because they give you that experience of being on campus without making any commitments. Rimkus says she “cannot say enough how impactful college visits are” because they allow you to ask any further questions you haven’t found the answers to, and they allow you to envision what your life would be like there. I went on so many campus visits, and they were usually the deciding factor for me. When you’re there, get a feel for the campus vibes and see if they match what you want.

To Wrap Up: Transferring Takeaways

Once you’ve visited these colleges, make a pros and cons list or organize your thoughts however you like to. Keeping in mind the size, cost, academics, and location will help you find the best college for you. However, the list provided throughout this page was only a guideline, as priorities differ based on who you are as a person and student. Making this decision isn’t easy, but hopefully these resources will ease the struggle a little bit and guide you towards your academic home. Find the school that’ll make YOU happy!

Jazmyn Scholl is a junior studying psychology at North Central College. After she graduated high school in 2021, she was conflicted about where to attend college. So, she chose to start at her local community college. After those two years, she felt stuck in the same place as before. She didn’t know what type of college would suit her best and where her credits would transfer. With lots of family and friend support, college visits, and research, she decided on North Central College. Jazmyn hopes to provide the same support she received throughout the college search process in writing this content. In her free time, she enjoys watching crime TV and spending time with friends.