Survival Guide for College Commuters: Navigating Stress as a College Commuter

By Sebastian Lemus

Spring 2024

Hello to college commuters! You’re probably here to learn about all the ways you can control the little things in life so that you can manage your stress better. I’m a junior in college who happens to be a commuter, so I’ve had some time to figure out commuting tips to help you learn about organizing a stress-free college life. This will be a guide from the very start of what is stress all the way to the focus of how time management plays a huge role in being stressed as a college commuter follow me on this journey as a college commuter!

What is Stress?

Many people wonder what stress is with many of them going with a definition of their own not knowing what stress is truly. According to the World Health Organization, stress can be defined as a state of worry or mental tension caused by a difficult situation. The World Health Organization also claims that “Stress is a natural human response that prompts us to address challenges and threats in our lives.” This is the perfect way to describe it since many college students face stress, but especially college commuters who face stress in different situations. That will told in detail as we go down the line.

College (Commuter) Students are Stressed!

Commuting college students often experience stress, a sentiment shared by many in their situation. This alignment of stress among commuters is quite understandable. One of the typical stressors that can be anticipated is the pressure of studying for exam, competing for admissions or internships, and trying to master large amounts of content in small amounts of time. Sudden changes, unexpected challenges, or traumatic events can be unpredictable sources of stress. As a college student myself, I believe exams are one of the most stressful things in college because they are time-consuming and count for a large portion of grades. Grades can make or break you in college! That being said, college commuters have their own unique problems that many people can relate to which may align with the reason they are not able to live on campus. Sarah Wood from US News wrote “Whether due to financial reasons, health concerns, family obligations or job responsibilities, students who live a few minutes or even a couple of hours away from their college may consider commuting rather than living in on-campus housing or renting a place nearby.” These are problems that commuters face which may limit them from the many opportunities that students who live on campus have. On-campus students have the advantage of benefits and workshops that might not fit into commuters' schedules. In Research done by Sam Houston State University, the study claims that commuter students are usually older people who work more than 21 hours, which suggest that their stress levels are moderately higher than residential students.

I conducted an interview with a college commuter, Ankit Patel who said, “Time management is actually the biggest stress factor in my college life since I have to maintain a certain schedule to get tasks done.” As a college student at North Central College, I also deal with time management issues. Time management plays an important role for every college commuter student, but also affects residential college students as well. I will take a dip into examples of first year college commuters’ problems that cause them stress and the University of Minnesota challenges:

  • Learning new study skills to accommodate a more intensive course load

  • Experiencing the culture shock of a new environment

  • Making new friends

  • Exploring campus

  • Finding ways to become involved and connected to the campus community

  • Managing time

  • Handling college finances

This blog post will focus on the lack of time management as the main cause of stress from commuters but also just ways to lessen stress in general for college (commuter) students.

The Role of Time Management

Time management can be many things from when you are arriving to your lecture, to what mode of transportation you will be arriving in to make that lecture or arrive at college. There are little details that become problems in the bigger picture of time management and how it causes many commuter students to stress out more than anything else since it consumes every part of your life. The problems as U.S news reports is transportation to seeing what the traffic will be like before heading out, to where to park around or in the university. I interviewed Mary Johnson, a therapist at North Central College, who said “Many college commuters come to me saying they feel like there is not enough time.” This is a very common problem in college commuters. Managing their time can be difficult just because every day is an unknown filled with problems and the need to find solutions for these problems. Even if you get the hang of managing your time it will always be difficult. In my own experience, I’ve learned to manage time but sometimes it’s still out of my control. Patel also says, “Balancing my college life requires constant juggling and strategic planning. Every moment counts as I go through assignments to reach the goal every college student wants.”

Side Effects of Stress

Stress has many different types of side effects that cause harm both physically and mentally to everyday college commuters. Mary Johnson also says, “Many causes of stress can bring in many other different problems to college students from being fatigued and many other mental problems start showing up like anxiety since commuters students get fear of missing out (FOMO) which is why it is important to look for solution to deter college students' stress.” The side effects of stress also make everything worse, from missing assignments to waking up late, which can lead to college students being unproductive. College is a place where you have to be engaged, or you will fall behind. The University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill say It can:

  • Interfere with studying or class attendance

  • Interfere with cognitive processes such as attention and concentration

  • Contribute to major health issues such as heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, depression, and anxiety

The side effects I personally experience from stress is becoming anxious because I feel like everything I do has to be planned. If it is not done in order, I feel like I will forget something important that will affect my life at college. I feel like stress will destroy your body if solutions are not found for the stress college commuters are facing like me. Sometimes they have to put their own mental health behind them because they believe they do not have the time. An article from Los Angeles Times writes “Naturally disadvantaged academically by their commute, they don’t have enough time in their days to sleep, study or get together with their study groups,” Dana Cuff, a professor of architecture and urban design at UCLA, said at a recent UC Regents meeting. North Central College student success coach, Gill also said something similar about college commuters, “Fatigue is a real challenge for college commuters. Be mindful of managing your energy levels to stay focused and maximize your success.” Gills also claims that many students from different colleges come with this complaint of having fatigue and how they want to focus on that when making their class schedule. The side effects of stress are important to note. People feeling this way must first address the situations causing their stress. The goal is for readers to understand college commuters' stress and stress in general among college students. It's crucial to recognize stress and its effects, but the main aim is to find general relief from stress and strategies for control.

It's crucial to recognize stress and its effects, but the main aim is to find general relief from stress and strategies for control.

Stress Relief

Stress is a part of college student's everyday life. It is not surprising because college will play a big role in your future, so it is important to take it seriously. As a college student who commutes, I relieve stress by taking some time out of my day to relax and watch something entertaining. Many people believe relaxation is something we all need. “It is okay to take a break and allow yourself to recharge,” Mary Johnson of North Central College says. The University of North Carolina believes when faced with setbacks or difficulties, we tend to be tougher on ourselves. However, combating stress involves practicing self-compassion. Treat yourself with the same kindness you would offer a friend, acknowledging your worthiness of self-care. Recognize moments of distress and establish a personalized self-care regimen. Incorporating leisurely activities and social interactions into your routine can promote well-being. Additionally, integrating simple relaxation techniques like deep breathing throughout the day can help alleviate stress. Stress is never going to fully disappear from your life, it’s a fact. Being able to take time to remove yourself from certain situations is important when dealing with stress because of all the other side effects of stress build up.

Control What You Can!

Everybody knows stress will be forever attached to people, but it is important to know that you should control problems that are in your control to alleviate what will stress you out especially college commuters. The article, “How to Calm Your Mind as Commutes Commence Again,” from UCLA says, “Have a stress-free morning and, start your day off on the right foot by preparing the night before. Lay your outfit out, plan your meals for the day, make sure your travel essentials are together (shoes, bag, keys, bus pass), and perhaps most importantly, get adequate rest each night.” This is something many college commuters need to do since it is essential to have all your items ready to go since it can be difficult returning home and potentially messing up your schedule. Gills says, “When speaking to the students at North Central College I try and find out their situation and when they are available so that I can build their classes around them since every student has their very own life.” Many people are willing to help commuters and it is important to use the resources given to you because if you are not honest college can be a lot more difficult. There are many possible things you can do when having to stay at the college until all your classes finish. It is important to keep busy because your time is valuable, whether you're doing assignments or going out to eat. The U.S News article makes a good point with another option for commuter students to stay busy and make money, which is getting an on-campus job if they don't have employment already. Campuses all over the country wherever you attend have college jobs that can take some of your time which will make it valuable. Campus jobs can help you learn new skills but also earn you cash that you might need for your personal needs. That is why as a college commuter it is important to control everything possible to keep yourself as healthy as possible to succeed as a college student that is commuting.

Conclusion

As a college commuter, it is important to first note if you are stressed or struggling to not ignore the mental health because there are many other effects that come with being stressed out. If you notice stress, find ways to relieve the stress by finding things that can relax you like laying down in bed, going to get a massage, or doing yoga. It is also important to get down to the root of what is stressing you out as a college commuter or as a student in general and find solutions to those stressors. These solutions can range from making a schedule for yourself to finding out what to do with your time at college in down times as a college commuter. All college commuters should always try to solve their stress problems as best as possible or if you cannot find solutions, find someone who can try to help you but do not just let it build up.

Sebastian Lemus is currently a senior at North Central College (NCC). He is majoring in Marketing and will be graduating from NCC in May 2025. Sebastian transferred to NCC from Waubonsee Community in the hope of more opportunities at North Central College. Sebastian Lemus has made a Marketing Research Report with a team for Naperville Senior Center. He wants to continue a path that involves marketing research and plans to become a Marketing Research Analyst after he graduates.